Saturn in Cancer

Personal perspective of my own chart.... I have Saturn in Cancer in the 6th house.. People with Saturn in Cancer usually have emotional and family background problems, especially due to the mother.. I remember in the fourth grade.. I was late to school and was crying about it because I thought the teacher would be mad and my mom had to walk me to class as I continued to cry.. My teacher was nice about it and loved me... but my mom, when she picked me up from school told me that if I were to ever do that again she would not ever help me again... she was embarrassed of me or something... I learned thru her that having emotions was unacceptable... and learned to stifle them... Now that I am older, I don't even feel anything Until I Do, and then it is like the dam breaks and I cry all day and don't even know why. The sixth house is like the sixth sign Virgo which is the sign of work and health.. so my emotions affect my work and health and that has always been a problem. I am surprised as anyone else when I break down. It's like I'm fine and then suddenly I am not and it often makes me physically ill from all the repression.. But it is ingrained and I don't know how to stop it.  Long story short, let your children feel and have emotions and work thru them.... "if you don't stop crying, I'll give you something to cry about." That was another one I heard a lot..  Society would make it seem otherwise but emotions are what being human is all about.... We are Supposed to FeeL. Remember : Energy in motion.... emotions cannot be contained anymore than you can contain energy, it will find a way out, one way or another. and the resistance to it, is to me why the human race is so fucked up now.